For a reason only God knows, He gave Ralph and I the commission early on in our marriage that our door is always open. We've welcomed a variety of people into our lives over the years and certainly there were times we were taken advantage of and had some bumps and bruises. In looking back over the years, I'm hopeful we showed His love and compassion even though we still didn't fully understand it ourselves. And still don't fully understand it but we have grown in embracing it.
In these experiences, we've learned there is wisdom in having boundaries in place. Communication and adjustment are a continual need. Guarding your relationship with each other is vital. Martyrdom is futile. Forgiveness is essential. Grace and mercy are a daily need. His love covers all and my love falls short. We are responsible to be the light of Christ but we aren't responsible for their response. And there even comes a time when you have to recognize that the season is ending for both parties and a new one is beginning. Hopefully the new season is one of spring and new growth but we've seen a harsh winter hit as well.
What I know is this: Our door is open. We will be obedient. And, praise the Lord, we are getting better at hearing His voice of wisdom and discernment once He places His sheep in our home for a day, a week, however long. Because ultimately, they are HIS sheep and we are simply His caregivers for a season.
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